In a world where social connections often dictate our sense of belonging, I've found myself drawn to the simplicity of companionship rather than the clamour of crowds. While some thrive amidst the vibrancy of gatherings, I've always sought solace in the quietude of twos. To me, four represents a party, a cacophony of voices and energies that overwhelm rather than uplift. Three, they say, forms a crowd, and in the midst of such congestion, I've never been one to ration my breaths among strangers.
One is a wanderer, but I've always struggled with directions and the solitude it entails. The idea of facing the world alone, with no one to share the journey or guide the way, has always been daunting. Yet, in the midst of this numerical maze, I've discovered the profound comfort of a balanced two.
With a companion by my side, I feel a sense of security that transcends words. It's a grounding presence, a steady hand to hold amidst life's turbulent tides. For me, two is not just a company; it's an ample sufficiency, providing the companionship and support I need without overwhelming my sense of tranquillity.
You see, in life, we're often told that the more connections we have, the richer our lives become. But amidst the pursuit of social validation, we can sometimes lose sight of the true essence of relationships: the connection itself. For years, I chased after friendships that resembled the ones I saw in movies and TV shows, longing for a tight-knit group that would stand the test of time.
Yet, in my quest for the perfect friendship circle, I failed to realise that true connection doesn't always come in numbers. It's not about being the main character in a grand narrative, but rather about finding someone who understands and accepts you for who you are. And in that realisation, I found my true companion.
Even though I was once a villain in my own story, and my journey felt more like a villain's tale than a hero's journey, I still discovered a friend in the presence of that which was lost. Despite my perceived faults and missteps, I found acceptance and companionship, proving that true connection transcends labels and narratives.
She wasn't a sidekick or a minion; she was simply a friend. And in her presence, I found the fulfilment and contentment I had been searching for all along. In a world that often values quantity over quality, I've learned that sometimes, all you need is just one person who truly gets you. And for me, that's more than enough.
“If you have two friends in your lifetime, you're lucky. If you have one good friend, you're more than lucky." — S.E. Hinton
I'm beyond lucky.
This is a beautiful piece that reminds us of the immense blessings of quality over quantity.
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