Friendships are one of the most beautiful things anyone could enjoy and ever ask for. This brings back to my mind, the friendship of my youth - the giggles, the playful screams and the joyful banters. However, it is unavoidable that friends, just like every other earthly gift, fades away with time. Is it the unresolved misunderstanding that made us swear never to approach one another or the feeling of betrayal when one of us left without a word - thank God for Facebook moments. Or the dear little one among us whom we could not snatch from the grip of death?
Regardless of how we all separated or how much our emotions raged back then, it is indisputable that friendships are beautiful and my friends are some of the best people you could ever wish you grew up with.
Our clique was interesting to behold because it was as though individuals with varying character traits came together to form a unit. And these differences were what made me come up with this interesting article because it is unavoidable that we must have met or will still meet one category of friends listed here.
1. The hot-tempered one
In every circle of friends, there must definitely be that one person who doesn't calm down and take ‘nonsense’. It is this one person in your clique who wears their emotions on their sleeves. This type of friend is usually honest and free to be with because you can be sure that they’re not scheming behind your back.
Sometimes, that one person in your clique who is guilty of being hot-tempered will always hide it under a meek, quiet or cold exterior.
2. The ever-listening and mature one
I have keenly observed that in every clique of friends, there is always someone whom the others respect a lot and look up to. This person serves as the string in that relationship as their level-headedness in contrast to the fickleness of the others keeps the relationship sane. This type of friend is one you should never trade for anything because they will always be there guiding you through and holding your hands up in victory.
Of course, such a person need not be the gentlest or oldest in that clique; in fact, it might be the rowdiest of all who has that tender heart of a parent among your circle of friends.
3.The fun friend
What is life without the daily dose of laughter, jest and jokes? In every circle of friends, there is always that one bubbly person who makes the most hilarious jokes without thinking twice and you cannot also ignore the ones who make dry jokes on a constant basis.
Whichever of these two types of fun friends you might have around you, cherish them with all your heart because your mental and emotional well being might just be intact because of them.
4. The sarcastic ones
These are the ones who just want to see the world go up in flames and do not mind adding a little fuel. In the Nigerian parlance, they always fan the flames of violence with their caustic remarks. This type of person always has the best reply for any scenario - make sure you never offend them!
Now you might wonder why you need such a person around you.
Here is one major reason; Being an educated intellectual, sometimes, you might be cheated and it would seem too low if you engage in a fist-fight; at the same time, it will be too exaggerated if you involve the police. So what is your best bet? Invite your dear sarcastic friend and all issues will be settled in no time!
5. The ones who pray for and with you
I can always go separate ways with any of my friends but definitely not from this category of friends. These are the ones you can always meet to be renewed, refreshed and transformed after a hectic life. You must hold on tight to the skirts of these ones even when they seem tired of you and want to leave. I’m not talking about the spooky ones or the condemning ones who make you feel worthless. Rather, I’m talking about friends to whom you can share your burdens with no fear of condemnation or isolation.
Most of the time, these particular category of friends are good listeners, loving and fun to be with at the same time.
Blessed are you when you have one in your circle!
Dear reader, I believe after reading this article, you have evaluated the types of friends you have and which category you personally belong. If you think I have not mentioned a specific category, do let me know in the comment section, I’ll be sure to include it.
Now before we say our goodbyes, I want you to note that one friend might actually have all of these traits thus, saving you from having multiple friends or having to deal with backstabbing in severe cases. After all, we should always remember to chase after the quality of our friends rather than the quantity.
I wish you all the best!
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